Skateboarding doesn’t get odd or boring. The more you learn, the more you find the drive to enjoy it more. And what makes it even more fun is a bunch of skaters joining you, whether in skate parks or streets.
However, it’s not every day that you have the guts to ask any skater to do some tricks or cruise with you. And if you ever feel this way, don’t worry. Let me teach you how to make friends to skateboard with in all ways possible.
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Ways to Make Friends at the Skatepark
Step 1: Find skater friends
While this step can be subjective, choosing your first skating fellow needs careful judgment.
You can look at his skating style and attitude when doing tricks or stunts. That way, you’ll see if the skater’s too cool for you or if he’s someone who has the same energy as you. Once you find that prospective rider, you can proceed to the next steps.
Step 2: Start a conversation.
It takes confidence to start a conversation with a stranger skateboarder. But after uttering your first words, the rest will run smoothly.
However, make sure that you don’t sound offensive or conceited when talking. Instead, you can start by giving the skater compliments about his wheels or deck pop. That sounds more like an open-ended topic that can lengthen your conversation.
Step 3: Gently ask for contacts
If you feel that you and your new acquaintance will click soon enough, you can ask for his contacts, social media account, or even a Discord group, if any.
But you can’t do it by directly asking for them. You can start with questions that sound more like an invite to hang out next week or some other day. Then, if they’re interested, your fellow will most likely give an Instagram account or a number.
Step 4: Reach out
Like starting a personal conversation, all you need is the confidence to send that message.
This time, you’re not going to send compliments but invites. Ask your buddy out. Tell him what time and which skate park you plan to go to. Then, you can agree on a plan and probably invite some more friends.
Step 5: Try building a group.
Every bunch of skaters showing off often started as strangers. Eventually, they got into some common interests and continued skating as a team.
If you did well with the previous steps, there’s no way you can’t form a group, too. Keep communicating with people, and invite them to join you and your small community.
Is It Necessary to Get a Skating Buddy
The best thing about skateboard culture is it’s inclusive. Your age, level, and style rarely matter. If you find a skater with the same vibe, everything else follows.
While riding alone may make you comfortable, skateboarding with friends gives you added support and motivation. Not only that, but you also get to learn from experienced skaters, whether for tricks or maintenance aspects.
So, if you want to upskill by soliciting advice from other skaters and have fun with them, it’ll be best to build a skateboarding community.
- Show up – If a fellow skateboarder asked you to be at some skate spots and you agreed, show up. It’s not only for enjoyment but also for showing courtesy.
- Know people – Show your fellow skaters some interest. Try to remember their names, favorite styles, or skateboard parts.
- Take courage – Never be afraid to spark some conversations with your buddy. Introduce yourself politely, and they’ll do the same.
- Compliment – It doesn’t cost anything to commend someone about his style and the improvements he makes. So, always try to support your skating buddies.
- Try asking some questions – Show your interest by asking questions and pay attention to what your friend has to share with you. In the same way, you get to learn new things.
Skateboarding is a welcoming environment. Whether you’re starting, at mid-level, or a pro, you can always find company to join you. All you need is to start wisely, and everything else follows.
Knowing how to make friends to skateboard with will not only get you a buddy or a group on your rides. But you also learn to socialize with people better and improve your skills.
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Hi, I am Charles Harris. I opened this site to write as much as I can about my biggest passion – skateboarding!
I started as a clumsy yet passionate rookie 10 years ago to now a still passionate yet much better skateboarder! But I have to tell you, the whole journey has always been fun and rewarding, indeed not without hardship.